One of my friends takes full advantage of the internet and its offerings (wink, wink). He was a pioneer in the field and I value his expertise (if not always his judgement). His casual, late night encounters would, no doubt, rival any others.
Going into my first Saturday night date (guy who subsequently met his true love, and is, duh, back on the site now), he gave me advice, “bring condoms.” My reaction, “I am not having sex tonight.”
Him: Listen to me. If you think there’s any chance of something more with this guy, then don’t go too far. But, if he’s hot and you’re not going to see him again, get a hotel room and fuck the shit out of him…break the ice.
Delicate, prudish me must admit that he makes a good point.
My Frog Princes 
This is an interesting dilema for both sides, and a conundrum for all. I see logic in both sides of the argument but the decision still rests on personal preference and habit. Lets face it we’re allmature adults with different sexual appetites and persona. Lets not worry about what those not into what you’re doing thinking/impression about you. Being called a “hose-hound”, slut, whore, pimp, etc, shou ldn’t really have any bearing on what you do, who or how many people you sleep with or don’t. The real issue is personal happiness and human interaction, “whatever makes you feel good. Look, as a person who has been married three times and slept with more wonderful women than one person should be able to whats important is “being involved in the pursuit of love/companionship/friendship, or whatever turns you on. Honesty, openness, transparency and understanding are the important actions/feelings/emotions.
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fuck the shit out of him if it makes you feel good. but i think by holding back he will want to fuck the shit out of you even more.
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